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The 7 Best Fetish Dating Sites

Let’s be honest. Fetishes. We all have them. Even if you think you don’t, you do.

Chances are, you know what it is too, even if you’re too ashamed to say it.

But that’s the problem isn’t it?


Far too often, fetishes are unfairly stigmatized. You’ll hear things like ‘oh, fetishes are freaky.’ ‘Oh, fetishes are unnatural.’

For the life of me, I can’t figure out where on earth these arguments come from.

Let’s discuss sex candidly for a minute. Sex is not pretty. Do you know how much effort it takes to look good while you’re having sex?

Too much, is the answer. Listen, sex is dirty. Sex is sweaty. There are fluids everywhere. If it’s any good, chances are you’ll want to wash your sheets when you’re done.

The point is, sex is in and of itself a pretty freaky activity.

So why wouldn’t you just embrace it? Get dirty.

Live out your fantasies. Life is too short to regret that you never indulged in yourself sexually.

The only problem is, once you’ve decided to explore your fetishes, it can be hard to find people to explore them with.

After all, walking up to people on the street or in a bar and asking them to explore intense BDSM with you may come off a little… forward, let’s put it that way.

The natural solution to this problem, then, is of course good fetish dating sites. So, without further ado, here is a list of the top 7 dating websites for those with fetishes. advertises itself as, essentially, Facebook for people with kinks.

With almost 7 million members worldwide it’s been a successful venture without a doubt.

Mark Zuckerberg may have created the most popular social media website of all time, but did he give a way for BDSM, fetish, and kink enthusiasts to get together and have some fun?

No, no he didn’t. Considering FetLife’s success, however, who knows what Facebook’s next expansion will be. Who knows, is what I’m saying. There are clearly opportunities here.

The point is, until Mark decides he wants to make some adventurous business decisions, FetLife is an amazing way for people to introduce themselves into the world of fetishes, and get some experience while doing it.

Okay, let’s say that you’re looking for something a little more specific than what’s offered by FetLife. Let’s say that specific thing is… BDSM.

Specifically, FemmDomme, Bound and Gagged, Ass Worship, High Heels, Boots and Stockings based BDSM. Oh wait. I’m sorry, those are only four of the 340 different BDSM based groups that will hook you up with if you use their service.

The point is, if you’re into BDSM, whether you’re a hardcore vet or a newbie looking for something a bit lighter, you’ll be able to find it on, and that makes this site without a doubt one of the best fetish-based dating websites on the web today.

Nothing wrong with a little cougar and cub fun. Whether you’re the cougar (an older woman) or the cub (a younger man), CougarLife will hook you up, literally.

A great site for people looking for some exciting fun, CougarLife provides those who have a cougar fetish with some great opportunities to indulge.

Featuring chat, private photo exchange, gift, advanced search, priority messaging, and local dating features, CougarLife is a great is a great site to use for mature women looking to find a younger man or vice versa, whether it’s for something casual or for a more serious connection. also features the cougar and cub based services that CougarLife provides, but also incorporates a MILF fetish based service to boot.

Out of the two, this makes MILFtastic a better option for younger men who are looking to find something a little more serious with a mature woman, such as younger fathers who may be looking for a suitable partner.

However, that’s not to say that this website can’t be used for some casual fun either. For example, MILFtastic also features a Sugar Momma based service. The point is, if you have a Cougar/Cub or a MILF fetish, this site can give you what you need, no matter what you need.

Let’s show some appreciation to the members of the plus-sized community here.

BBWCupid is for both men and women looking to find serious, invested relationships. Oftentimes, members of the plus-sized community are sadly ostracized.

This wonderful little site gives members of that community a place where they can unapologetically be themselves. provides great services for plus-sized members looking for a serious connection, and the fetish dating community is better off for it.

Anime has taken the world by storm over the past couple of years, and regardless of how memed the anime community is, the otaku fetish that is based in anime culture is a valid fetish.

While members of this community may find themselves disregarded on more mainstream dating services, Maiotaku provides members of this community with not only a great way to find partners with similar interests, but also just a fantastic community in general.

Maiotaku consistently emphasizes the fact that they provide a community to their users first, and a dating service second.

And with how committed to their community they are, they prove that this mission statement is accurate. For otake and anime fans not only looking for that special someone, but also for a great community, Maiotaku is a great place to start.

Okay, let’s be honest, it isn’t easy to be a furry. Not to imply anything negative about the hobby or the fetish, but it definitely isn’t exactly accepted by the mainstream.

It’s important for these marginalized communities to have a place where they can safely exist, and is a fantastic example of just that.

For furries looking to find the perfect mate, FurryMate is a great site that provides exactly what it advertises: an over 18 dating service for furries looking to find their purrfect mate.

And that about covers it folks. Have you used one of these sites? If so, which one (if you don’t mind), and what have your experiences been? We value all members of the fetish community, and would absolutely love to hear from you. Remember, be consensual, be safe, and have fun!

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